Oh dear...

[.Rissa.]

Okay, so, tomorrow is the concert I am going to see! The problem, is my boyfreind who is going with me. It would be awesome! If the following weren't going to be in consideration:
1) he is wearing bright yellow, poofy, ear plugs..
2) he hates loud noises
3) he hates crowds and when people bump into you and.... yeah

This concert is at a club. I've been exposed to this kind of thing a lot in my life. My dad and his girlfriend made me look older and snuck me into a club before when I wasn't old enough to get in. I mean, people will obviousley be drinking, it is like a stand up place, so we will be bumping shoulder with the people next to us, we will be screaming, yelling, whistleing... that's what these kind of concerts are all about. A good time hanging out with people you all have something in common, and all the one's I have been too, no chaos. People get drunk, but, everyone is nice and freindly.

My boyfreind went with me to a horse auction one time, and had to leave... he said the announcer was too loud, and there were too many people. I told him he didn't have to go, but then he got mad, and said he didn't want me to go alone. My mom is going with us, becuase she likes this kind of thing too. And, we might have to stay the night, if we get bad weather and if we drove all the way home, we wouldn't get home till around 1 am... but he said his parents would get angry and not allow it.

my MOM is going. It just, kind of, hurts me that his parents don't trust us and my MOM that much. Seriously. Any ideas, opinions, thoughts, suggestions please? Lol.

[aedeevalentine]

going with your mom to a concert isnt that bad.

I went to AFI( back stage ), MCR ( pit tickets ), The Jonas Brothers( front row ), The End of Summer Scorcher ( VIP, Back Stage, Front Row )(which had like 20 bands in it). She drives me to local concerts and such. Its cool to go to shows with your mom. shes got the money!!

its not that big of a deal lol. It was just me and my mom for AFI, MCR, JB. Honestly its not that bad.

[.Rissa.]

no, im not saying going with my mom is bad. i was talking about why my boyfreind wont enjoy and he wants to go only because he is jealous if i even LOOK at another guy. But, he can hug all these girls that are freinds.... but he hates everything a concert is about.

[aedee]

Well then your boy friend doesnt really sound like a keeper lol.

He needs to trust you. But if he doesnt enjoy it then just ignore him. Your going there to have fun right? So dont let him bum you out.

[Ω-Admin-Cara-Ω]

It sounds like your BF needs to take a chill pill. It also sounds like you might have a better time if it's just you and your mom. And if he doesn't trust you, then... Basically you deserve WAAAAY better then a guy telling you what you can and can't do.

[aedee]

I agree with you Cara!

[.Rissa.]

Thanks girlies =) I just have to convince him not to go with us now. Becuase, I mean, I get to MEET Chris. Yeah, I'm excited, and he just doesn't understand, he is mad about it. He said 'oh well, you're not excited to see me' and I am! He knows it. This is someone famous! If he got to meet some famous girl I wouldn't be jealous, I would be happy for him.

Oh well, thank you ladies =)

[chey]

well Rissa he is kind of rude...I would get angry at my boyfriend if he told me that i wasn't excited to see him. Cause im always am. I love to be around him. Also your boyfriend needs to trust you alot more. I changed my schools and I know a guy at my new school I go to and he really really likes me, but my boyfriend knows that I won't do anything and he trusts me with all the guys cause I have more guy friends than girl friends. A relationship should be built with trust in each other.